Love and Provocation - David Mitts
“Love is not easily provoked” 1 Cor. 13:5 Click here to listen to " Love and Provocation " We often refer to the word triggered for the concept of love not being easily provoked or easily angered. We realize that when we are angered that we are swept up in the emotion. The root of anger or provocation for anger is often a question of perspective. I once heard that when you dissect getting upset or angry over something, it often is rooted in an unmet expectation. There is in us a sense of expectations of how things are supposed to occur. This expectation set becomes the gauge or monitor for how we respond to life’s circumstances. We can call it our “fairness” filter. We expect based on our experiences and learning to have certain things turn out in a certain fashion. For example, if people have generally been honest with us then we expect honesty from people. However, if we have grown up in a deceptive environment where lying was the norm, the...